Yep, just got back from a quick trip to the beach. We both got a bit of colour (but DD burns easily even with sunblock, so I like keeping the visits for a couple of hours and no more). She refuses to wear a sun shirt (typical little lady, reckons it looks ugly).
My DD told me that W got a new phone whilst I was away (I think even a changed mobile number). I haven't rang her mobile in several weeks (no need to, part of my going dull rather than dark). When we got home, she left a message on our home phone asking whether she missed my call and she is back at her desk at work (don't know why she would tell me that, considering she hasn't cared if I call or not in several weeks). I think she may have been worried that I tried to ring her at work, then on her old mobile number.
Why would she hide it from me (new number and phone). I haven't done anything to upset her, and have not called her at work or on her mobile in several weeks. I told DD (before I left for Canberra) that she could call me anytime she wanted, that it might be harder for me to get hold of her due to W's movements whilst I am away. So I avoided calling W whilst I was away.
You know, I can accept everything that has happened, but the thing that gets me annoyed is the deceiving. There is no need for her to do this, as I know she is with OM, I know we are getting a D, I accept her privacy and have not queried her about anything for months, so whats the point?
She knows that lying and deceiving are two of the things that upset me.
For now I will let it go and let her tell me in her own time. Hopefully she will realise that it is probably in her and DD's best interest that I have the option of contacting her in case of an emergency. It's pretty hard if I don't have her new number.
I am living in "Bizarro World". It was so nice being away from her for the last week...........
