Gish, Just keep supporting her. I know that it is hard, but I think there is a letter on here on the home page in the letters section from a husband who did that exact thing. She soon came to realize the the husband was the real catch instead of the OM. The OM became jealous of the husband because he was such a "good friend" to her.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
