Thank you. I am very lucky to have a wonderful family.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
Thanks for asking Mrs. H. I don't have much to say so I don't say much. I only read once in a while and check up on my old and dear friends.
D is final. H has moved in with heroin. Ss still hate her and want nothing to do with her but H doesn't seem to care. I have no car, can't pay my property taxes. But believe it or not life is good. I have great friends who make sure I get back and forth to work and get groceries. I am in the process of refinancing our home and that should solve other problems. I am going to church every week and am doing Beth Moore's Believing God bible study for hurting women. I am getting baptized on Sunday.
S32 is having stem cell transplant therapy, S20 has to have shoulder surgery next month, and S17 will be 18 on Saturday. Hope things are going better for all of you. Take care and God bless you all. BTW, yes I am still standing and still wearing my rings.
Last edited by ANewMe; 09/18/0708:48 PM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Congrats on the upcoming Baptism. You will feel so overwhelmed and calm. Just remember God is always in control.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
ANewMe... this may sound strange, but did you used to post under a different name? Your sitch sounds very similar to someone who used to post several months ago.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
I talk to Woody63 on a regular basis, and he is doing great. His divorce was final a year ago.
He met a wonderful woman this spring, and is in a serious relationship with her. His ex-wife has finally moved out of the fog a little bit. I think his moving on, and completely giving up on her is what finally caused her to take a serious look at her life. I don't want to speak too much for him, but I will let him know that you asked about him, and see if he will stop in with an update.
