morgan, You are so right! I know you shield H from a lot of the DAILY (grrr!) hurt your kids feel. He should see all of it, every single moment. You are right, if H brings it up, its a great time to inform him about what you have seen.
And about your anniversary, what you said this morning will ring true the day after that day as well...the sun will be shining, the birds will be chirping. And most importantly, your kids will be healthy and you will still be their mom.
