Maybe I am rewriting history too. Maybe that is another stage of detaching. Instead of thinking of H on a pedestal I am remembering all the horrible things he did so I can let go. I am all about balance, but I am going to go with this feeling for now.
I totally understand this!!!! I have been doing the same thing lately. I couldn't figure out my anger last week and I think it has to do with this. Maybe...just maybe....our H's are tired of thinking how bad they had it, and are doing a switch as well, thinking of the good times. Maybe that is why the fog lifts....
