Why would the OM want me? Why, that is very obvious! I'm smart, beautiful, sexy, fun, entertaining, a great conversationalist,....no, just make that a "talker" (lol), compassionate, great imagination, sense of humor, perceptive, hummmmmmm.........and oh yeah, humble!
These are all wonderful charactieristics to have. But you are missing something very BIG from this list. I am trying to help you understand that what women want in relationships is VERY different from what men want in relationships. You can't fix any relationship until you understand what MOTIVATES men. You were MOTIVATING OM, and not for ANY of the reasons you listed above. By MOTIVATING him, he obviously was going to feed your needs. So please think again about what the OM REALLY saw in you. This might help to understand your husband and what he does (or doesn't do).
