Originally Posted By: Valentine
Originally Posted By: sofaraway
She came over last night and we had dinner with the kids. I would say it is definitely helping her and my D14 to be more comfortable together which is the result we were looking for, but it sure is uncomfortable for me.

Ian


Ian, why is that? why do we feel so uncomfortable around them? I confess, I have no idea. I know that I love my OLD H....this new one, well, he is lacking. I dunno.

Hugs,
Valentine


Vali,
I believe that I feel so uncomfortable because of all of the underlying garbage. The pending divorce, the pending custody issues, and the fact that she is living like a 21 year old instead of a 34 year old. That is what makes me so uncomfortable, there is only so much acting I can do....

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09