Cemar! Why would the OM want me? Why, that is very obvious! I'm smart, beautiful, sexy, fun, entertaining, a great conversationalist,....no, just make that a "talker" (lol), compassionate, great imagination, sense of humor, perceptive, hummmmmmm.........and oh yeah, humble!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!