It's good. If he were talking to you, he'd probably be yelling at you and that's not a good thing. So, no talking = no yelling = good thing. He's got a lot of issues Amy, lots of things he needs to work out with a professional before he should be allowed anywhere near you or your kids. You're his wife, not his therapist, his nurse, his maid, whatever. You can't fix him and it sounds like there is something broken there. You're doing the right things, hang in there.