He just called me at work to tell me he was telling the kids when he got home. SO I have no idea what I will be walking into. I told him his choice of timing is impecable. Our 19th anniv today. He said he didn't forget what today was but that it isn't very happy under the circumstances. Ya think????


So he is telling my kids who worship him that he cannot get along with me. So as if they weren't already they are going to blame me for driving him out which is NOT true. He said he is not going to answer any divorce questions, just give them an i don't know.

I told him not to expect me to be happy. He says he won't be happy leaving. I said that was pretty stupid then. He said why should he stay, just to make the 3 of us happy. I said the difference is that he is making a choice, we aren't.

I told him he was cruel to call me at work and upset me. I basically hung up on him and said do what you want, I don't have a choice anyway. If I drank I'd be a mess today.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08