Jeannette - that book is being mentioned by several people I have come into contact with - thanks: it is clear I must read it.
I don't know if you remember, but many moons ago I did a thread on low self esteem and MLC! I totally agree with you about their low self esteeem.
I think I said my h described the OW as 'not as nice as you, not as good looking as you and not as intelligent as you' And this was the person he was leaving me for!! OMG what does this say about the poor sap!!
