Yeah I have that book, bought it back last fall along with a bunch of other books. It was a key for me working on myself especially finding what my core values are and what I won't compromise. I recommend it to people just for the chapters on determining personal values.
Another recommendation to us has been The Five Love Languages. Interestingly we have the 5 love languages of children book. She's interested in the book and some of the exercises in it. So I bought it today and will be reading it the next few days.
Now the twist to all of this, she's pressing for a separation agreement which flies in the face of everything. But I do see value in it so I am going along with it. Once we have that finished up she wants to start counseling to help us with being friends again. It was originally my recommendation but she's latched onto it. Our goal of course is to use it to help us become friends again. We both realize there is a lot of value in having someone help us through the more difficult subjects and have someone direct and assist us.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
