What race is the OW? What attracted OW to H than you? You gave some good facts and let me give you the way I feel.

I would like my W to loose some weight, thats a would like but I am happy the way she is. I always tell her so. To lift up her spirits, I always compliment her. I would like for her to wear dresses and more of an office dressing style, but she doesnt.

Most of us 'would like this and that' but we never settle for the 'would likes.' We work with what we have or is about to loose.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...