I would love to get another pet. It would help a lot...but I already have a dog that H is sort of holding hostage. I hope to get her back at some point. If will def get another.
I would think a lap cap would be good for you. You travel but cats can be left with large amounts of food, water and clean litter for several days without worry. Often the don't even notice you left...those self centered little rascals
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Nothing like an empty lonely house to keep ones mind wandering.
I have been lucky to be able to keep myself occupied the weekends that H has the kids. The first weekend that he had them, I couldn't stand to drink in my house alone so I went to this night club by myself to listen to this great band. Got hit on by this big talk show host in this area that I used to listen to all the time before the Sep. He is actually way to old for me but does have some major bucks.
I am actually getting way worn out by these weekends the kids are gone. I have been doing some major running between either going to bars with my sis, drinking way too much alcohol and getting too little sleep, plus going horseback riding and other events going on. I have been telling everybody that I need to fit 2 weeks worth of fun into 2 day. I know that you are always supposed to be looking hot when the WAS comes over but after all that and just getting home from riding horses all day, I know that I have to be looking really strung out and beat hard.
I have to talk to some old friends of mine, see if they want to meet up in 2 weeks and go out dancing. They should hopefully know of a good night club.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
Hmmmmmm, I seem to recall falling a bit when learning that particular trick. Maybe I should stop losing weight so I'll have my current natural bounce when I fall.
Waw, maybe I can ski between you and Puddle?
Schnaaps + skiiing = hmmmm, that migth could be tremendously entertaining for all parties involved.
Oh, and I'm a dog person, but cat's aren't all bad. I really miss the two cats to keep me company during the day.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
I figured, but skiing always just looked more difficult to me than riding a bike. Like your skills would definately go away if you didn't do it for a while.
The more I think of this whole ski idea, the more I like it. I've a friend that skis at some of the spots around Gettysburg. Might do a practice day there to see what I'm getting myself into.
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
The latest in a string of uncomfortable moments with the H. He returns from his bus/pleasure trip and notices that there are new pics on the computer...I let my 4 year old use the camera. so there were some really dorky ones of me...H asked if they were for my online dating page. Urgh. I could slap him.
Bad enough I have MySpace to keep up with old pals (insert your jokes here)
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Uhhhh, errrrr, what a dick, sorry that's all I could think. No holding back here but that sounds very insecure
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Well your right he is being a real dick these days. My Dad wants to smash his face in at this point. Its funny how peoples true colors come out during all this. I wish I had the cajones to say "why yes, its for my AdultFriendFinder.com page since I haven't had any in years". But I didn't. But boy did I want too!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.