No he had no decision at all. He works in out inn field, she is an accountant. They met when he came into the office to get his materials and supplies. No he's never done anything like this according to my wife. He was too much of a broken man before. They are keeping very hush hush but some suspect and it got out to one guy. He thinks it is wrong and thinks she'll be back with me in 6 months. I hate that comment because I don't want her to be afraid to come back and be afraid of someone saying, "See I told you so"