Christy I am just popping in to see how you are doing? Glad you and the XH are talking. Until you sons are adults you and XH will need to communicate.
Let me say one thing and please don't take it the wrong way. It has to do with your comment about XH being overprotective and how it is nice. You do not need him to validate you. You are a young and beautiful woman. What I am saying is you still seem to be hanging on to how he feels or doesn't feel about you? If I am wrong tell me and I will apologize.
I hope you and the boys are doing well? I'll bet you will get some cold weather in the near future. It is very nice here for a change, around the mid 80's instead of high 90's. I love this time of year, makes for good motorcycling weather.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08