I would have no way to know how to get a hold of his wife to tell her. Plus he's already told my w that his marriage is over and they are just finalizing divorce, so his wife probably wouldn't care. He's told my wife, that his wife is a bit%h and that they can't stand each other. He claims his wife has mistreated him, etc. He said the difference between his marriage and ours, is him and his wife don't want each other and hate each other, but in my situation, he told my wife I still love her.