Going, Saffie is right on. You have no idea what load of bullsh!t OM has jibber jabbered to your wife. You know the score as do we. You need to do whatever you can to get past this OM issue and get focused. If it consumes your thoughts all day everyday how are you going to deal with it if she does come home? You are WASTING an awful lot of time worrying over things that may or may not be true as well as things that are out of your control.
For the record, my replies have been to going and I have confused Sandline and going at times. Then again everyone begins to sound the same. Sorry for the confusion.
