Saffie, I truly am thankful for your input. It is very thoughtful for you to be open about what you've gone though to help a stranger. THANK YOU. He's not gay, he's told my wife he loves her, so I'm not sure why he has this issue. Yes he is a co-worker (they've known each other 4 months). I'm not 100% sure but I think my wife saw a picture of her. All I know is my wife is telling the truth about his wife based on either what he told her or if she saw a picture. He joked with my wife that he doesn't do fat chicks. My wife told me she didn't really like that comment but she told me that comment so I would know that his wife is overweight and that's how my wife knows he hasn't had sex with his own wife for a very, very, long time and that's why he can't perform 100% because she said if you don't use it, you lose it.
