Dom,

I asked for a return once ------ he didn't say anything but stroked me instead and kind of half heartedly. I was always told not to discuss sex while having sex but short of adressing right then and right there the sexual rudeness being displayed I could never figure out just what to say.

I don't mean discussions to take 2 hours but once they start they always do. Once they start they always involve my H giving a lengthy diatribe of all the stresses in his life as if they are supposed to explain lack of engagement in the R forever more.

Karen