Honey, I am so sorry for the recent bout of crazy-making.
As Snodderly said, and as evidenced by many here (even the not-so-mean MLCers), they do tend to come poke when your life is moving along nicely.
My H doesn't seem to give a crap about my life - but I do know that he has made great efforts to be as mean and difficult as possible about every damn thing. WHY? You wanted me out of your life, and I quickly erased myself from it with no effort from you....and you still choose to act mean.
My guess is with Snodderly.....it seems that if you're happy, truly happy, then that's when you're the nicest to all, the calmest and balanced. A person who is truly happy, as many of us are getting, doesn't push buttons all over the place....they are just happy focusing on their new life.
But, their happiness is NOT our worry. The outcome on your family is what is...and your kids.
