Over lunch I sort of came to the following conclusion:
If I approach getting my own place by saying "I am looking at a couple of places that if I can fix up, we can make some money on....basically buy and flip idea...that gives me (i) someplace to spend my time other than at our house (ii) I like doing stuff like this (iii) allows me to put it as a joint decision rather than a final..."this is what I need now" kind of thing.
There are 2 houses I am looking at that fall in this category. I have actually floated this concept with no real negative reaction on the monetary front from W although I suspect she now knows I am thinking about more permanent digs.
Good time to buy too, lots of foreclosures, interest rates down etc.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.