No, I don't see you playing a game. I see you protecting Karen's soul, like I do sometimes when I interact with BB.
What Karen did (choice to stop initiating sex for months on end], wasnt "protection". It was a deliberate choice and plan of action, with the hope of getting a particular outcome from her husband. ok, she didnt have an "expectation of winning". in some ways, that makes it even more a matter of "playing games". How many games do you play, where you already know at the beginning that you are going to win?
it's wasnt a very good game to play, though, in my opinion. (maybe dodgeball would have been better. "you're going to just stand there, and do NOTHING??
*whack*
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Last edited by Dom R; 10/01/0706:26 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle