you didnt respond to my quickie note to you this morning.. maybe you missed it, maybe you thought it was just a joke... but I think it is actually relevant. What you just wrote, underscores that, I think.
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When we dated I used to do a lot of teasing H - sitting on his lap for a moment, looking into his eyes and making some kind of sexual remark, saying things like "nice outfit" when he walks across the bedroom naked etc.... I quit doing most of this because it felt like pressure, trying too hard or something.
If we were to look at what you wrote, and pretend it was written by a husband about his wife, it MIGHT be interpreted as, "when I dated my wife, I used to do much more playful stuff, that might be considered verbal foreplay, and so forth. But, now we're married, I dont do that any more. "
Wouldnt the reaction from women then be, "you insensitive male jerk! foreplay shouldnt stop once you get married!"
As support for this possibility... didnt you mention that you used to have a whoole lot more sex "while you were dating" ?
Last edited by Dom R; 10/01/0706:28 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
