I made sure OW new H and I ML as soon as we did. I made sure she knew it was good. They never touched one another again.
Your W sounds gullible. OM has got her taped. It's only a matter of time before it collapses. Tell me GISH why would your W want a guy long term who can't get it up and has depression and financial problems? She doesn't. She is flattered by the attention she is getting. When the excitement wears off she will see him for the drag he is. Especially if you stop propping her up and let her see the big bad world out there without you.
You don't have to be horrid but you don't have to be treated with such disrespect either. You are HUMAN and you have FEELINGS.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength