That depends on what's causing it. How old is this guy? Does he drink or smoke? If he has tried to 'get it up' already with your W and hasn't managed it there is a reason over and above the fat wife one. To be honest and frank, I would have expected him to be premature and over excited if he hadn't done it in a while - not have trouble keeping it up. REALLY - this guy is making excuses.
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Am I too paranoid and do you think think I have a chance.
YES and YES. Can You hear me shouting it across the Ocean at you. I am tapping my keyboard so hard with frustration, (NOT SEXUAL I HASTEN TO ADD, and not PMT - hah!!).
GISH, wake up and smell the coffee - please.
Is your W a really mild natured lady? She seems to have been taken in. This guy is no good.
I can see what Sara says about the sex being a connection, but in this instance, especially whilst OM is having problems, then don't just satisfy your wife whenever she wants sex. Leave her frustrated and wanting more. I'm guessing by your vasectomy comments that he has blamed using condoms on his prowess, (or lack of should I say) - JUST NOT TRUE. I think after vasectomy he will be 'sore' and say doctor say's he cannot have sex for a while. this guy is a faker. EXCUSES, EXCUSES, EXCUSES.......
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
