Thank you azhira. I have been a member of this site for several months, but have never posted until last weekend. Finding out that my ex is seeing another man hurt worse than getting the divorce notice in the mail. I'm going to do everything I can to get this to work out. I know it could take a long time. I hope to get the WAW perspective. When I found out about this last Saturday morning, I left a msg on her cell phone that I hope he can make her happy and that the situation really hurts right now. That's about it. Haven't heard from her since. I also saw her brother Saturday afternoon. I haven't talked to him much since this started. He said he is so sick of listening to her complain about me that he refuses to listen to it any more. I'm assuming she's going to eventually going to run out of an audience.
Any advice on her recent relationship? I heard these things usually don't last? I'm sure it started several months before the divorce was finalized, which lasted about 8 months after being separated for 4 months.
Thanks also for the link. I'm going to read your post tonight.
