Sara thanks for advice. My wife was NOT complaining about the sleep quality at all. She was just questioning the fact it felt sort of weird after not being there for the week and thought she would sleep more soundly being with me. In other words I'm scared she didn't feel more secure being there almost like it was a bad idea. Again she didn't say that but I worry about that. And your sex comment is right, it's the strongest link, So if he DOES perform, what's stopping her from even being more in love with him if he does, plus they won't need protection after his vasectamy. A guy's lack of performance doesnt last forever. Am I too paranoid and do you think think I have a chance.
