I can relate to the girls thinking your apt is not home. My D4 was telling me all week that she HATES my place and misses Daddy...Feels great to be me. I am the evil mother who moved out.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.