Saffie thanks again for your response. My wife and I know each other enough where we both know it wasn't about the garbage. She needed a reason for me to come over and talk. She is not using me because she really is confused what she wants. Saffie can you be so sure the OM won't be there for the long term. She's conformted him when he's been mad at work and he's said he loves her too. How can I be sure based on that? Saffie one more thing, he is getting a vascetemy in the next few weeks. I worry that once he gets that, that they will feel closer if they can physically do something without protection. I know I sound like an idiot but I am worried sick about it. Maybe that will make him perform better and then she will want him more. And is the comment that she felt weird sleeping in the house and didn't sleep as soundly in the house mean that she is having more doubts about our relationship. I'm so sorry for sounding like a fool :-( But I truly appreciate all your good advice and I pray you are right about OM not being a threat.
