I dont know OW. Just that they met at work years ago. She is a single mother of D11 and going to school to be a lawyer(yeah, right DL anyone?). She is ten years younger than H & I, but my girls say she looks older w/ more wrinkles than I,but hey Ive got a baby face. Supposedly her D' dad is a deadbeat.
They started as an EA. So they built a freindship (one big advantage since H & I use to argue too much, before I made my changes & before DB).
Yet , I am not sure about the sex you mentioned? This b/c he only got the courage to ask what he wanted from me sexually after she came along, so it tells me she is giving him what he wanted all along.
She seems insecure whenever H comes for his regular visits b/c she bolws his phone up if he is a minute late. D10 witnessed their phone convo one time where H was arguing about how she times him.
So I know they have a good freindship. Could it be they dont have the passion, that we have?