I am replying to you on here as this is your thread and there seems to be a bit of a mix up on GISH's thread as to who's who!!!
I think you need to be clear with your W about not wanting the D. I think Sara geve you good avice about the way you could say things. Don't look at the D being the final thing. There are many people on here who have even got to the court only to have the S decide not to go ahead. Some have even got D and then got back together. You need to focus on you and work on yourself. That way your W should see improvemnts and choose to commit back to you. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
