Need to get some feedback on the above when you guys get a chance. Called home to discuss an incident re: D14. She apparently had some kids at the house on Friday, and there was alcohol. w. had S9 at a game and got home earlier than predicted. OOPS.
I called to talk to w. about incident and first asked about her pinched nerve. I heard about it from D16 who's still in Utah at a school for troubled kids. Long story, but if you've followed this saga, you'll rememeber. Anyway, I ask how her neck is, and she corrects me that it's her arm that's number from the pinched nerve in her neck. I replied that that must be painful, and she reponded in her 2001+ attitude of not allowing me to be sympathetic to her at all, still not forgiving me for being away with the Army in 1994 when she had some major reconstuctive surgery and almost died. (It was not a good move on my part...but 13 years ago. She has had two subsequent operations where I was there for it all).
Her response was "It is what it is" and immediately moved off the subject. It's all part of the summer 06 behavior..dressing in a locked clost, locking the bathroom door when she showered so I couldn't enter, piling 40 feet of pillows between us in bed, refusing to turn the bedroom TV off so I could sleep.......I agreee with COG...maybe she doesn't want to give me flase hope. Got it! But this is still such odd behavior.
