Lost, What a great post on "Listening", I think it is (was) part of the problem with me, I was always trying to problem solve instead of feeling her needs and just plain 'ol listening. Thanks for that, I am doing better when I speak to my W, I don't try to explain away her feelings, they are real and valid, I am leaving her be for the most part, but I really miss her. I am also out of a job, and honestly feeling a little sorry for myself today. I re-wrote my resume, and I need to quit throwing myself a pity party as Gone Dancin' suggested. I have a couple of irons in the fire, and just like my marriage, I need to be very patient, the lack of which is the least of my qualities. Hope things are okay with you Lost.
"We're here for a good time, not a long time" ________________________________________
M:48 W: 43 S;20, S;10 Married: 14 Years / Together 17 Years Bomb Dropped: 2/4/07 Separated: 6/29/07 D to be filed by my W soon.
