You are right - without being there we don't understand. I just know what things were like in my M before things changed - we both assumed that we knew what the other wanted or made them happy and we were really off base. We both wanted each other but didn't know how to sort it. WE both thought the other didn't want us!!!! Communication and more communication was needed - just so hard to do!!!!!
I like Yoyo's suggestion of a sentence. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength