(((hugs))))It tore me up when I read what your D said & she is only 2?? WOW!!
I texted my H this morning somewhat in the same lines as you did. H moved back this past friday only to leave that same night back to OW house.
I wrote that if he decides to move back out there will not be a 3rd chance fo him. Told the girls6,7 &10yrs that daddy prolly will move back out to OW's, they were very sad. Said I wanted him to stay thru the holidays but I was not going to hold him & that he wins.