As I see it, I am in a "no win" situation. If I do for her, she may resent me for doing this after she left and gave up. Then if I don't, I am accused of "holding out" and not caring for my kids. She can get all the support she needs from her family since she conveys that she did nothing but be a supportive W and took care of our house and kids. My W doesn't give a damn about me only her selfish wants(money and OM).
No matter what I do, she still comes across as the victim and I have to go quietly into the sunset. She throws away our M and family and she gets to pick and choose what she wants and I have no say in my family's future.
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
