I don't believe that this weekend can do you any harm, and I think that you would benefit from it! My H would never talk about his feelings, but now he does and he says that he finds this very liberating, it is done in such away that it is not threatening. I think that if he is willing to go, then take advantage of it!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!