h returned home but spooked first night?

[Heartbroken]

Be careful not to push him out - let him make the choice to leave. I totally agree with NOT being the doormat - but sometimes (or a lot of times) these WAS's push our buttons so that we do push them out - make them leave...That way they can throw it back on us.

Detach a little more today - I know it's hard but he sounds so confused and you need to be the strong one (AGAIN - I know...)...

HB