hey there, for one, I would take each event at face value and don't read too much into things, that' way your W will feel free to be more spontaneous without wondering if you got "the wrong idea" (since she is still ambivalent about the M)
You have good ideas, to mix time along and with family so she won't feel pursued. Crossing my fingers for you))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.