What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Hmmmmm.....question is: Do you believe the behaviors?

We have had a great week since our blowup. I went dark for a few days and brought DH back around. We had a great weekend. He spent Friday, Saturday and Sunday here and just left this morning. He may come for dinner tonight, but I have my kids and don't like him to stay over if they are here.

Saturday he was telling me how happy he was....happier than he ever has in the history of our relationship. He sees huge changes in me and hopes that I see them in him. I asked him if he was scared and he said no. I told him I was still scared and so afraid of going thru what I did before when he left. It was a great moment. I had left to run some errands Saturday and he was texting me saying how much he loves me and this baby and how our life will be great.

So, I only peeked at his phone once all weekend. Nothing from OW. I know its way too soon to believe him yet, but its a start.

I honestly don't think I will ever feel 100% secure ever again. I did before and he blew me out of the water.