I have a dilemma that I need some feedback on. All of you here know my current situation. I have been pursuing my venture for some time now and it has created an incredible hardship for my family.

Now the dilemma...it appears that there is a very good chance that my efforts may be finally rewarded(at a huge personal cost). If this falls into place, it would give me all the financial stability I would ever need(with proper planning). So now I have to decide what I do for my kids? Here are the options as I see it at this moment..

1) Keep my house and have my W and kids move back in and I leave(keep in mind that OM lives around the corner)

2) Sell the house and pay the rent for a nice place for my W and kids to live so they can be out of her parent's house

3) Sell the house and only do what the law requires as far as support

I am open to any other suggestions.

I want to do the "right thing" for my kids to give them a bigger place to live. I am not doing this for my W but, I must admit, that it would feel really good for her to see that she gave up too soon and left for selfish reasons.

I would welcome comments, feedback or questions...Thanks


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007