Why is H moving toward being more loving to me, yet uploading a new ring tone for OW. I want that affection, but I'd do anythng to get OW out of our lives. There's that little voice in my head that pops up from time to time and says......Just hang in there, be positive, make some changes and he'll come around. But then there's that voice that came out last night that's so damned angry that I can hardly stand it.
SueS
Sue, I know it all seems like a game right now and it is so hard. I think he is in the stage right now he is coming around to you, but he hasn't gotten her entirely out of his system.
Be the person he wants to be with. Show him that you are strong. That's the stage I'm at and it's difficult at times, but we have to show them what they are losing. Save your tears for when he's not around.
I know it's so hard to not be angry, but right now don't show it to him. You will just push him towards her. She will be the cheerful one that is happy to see him. Make yourself attractive physically and emotionally to him. Let the OW be the one that starts putting demands on him.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
