Chicki,

I am a realtor in Tampa, but I didn't call anyone about your mortgage.

Since you have the papers today, and might not have access to them another day, you could take them to Kinkos and copy them. That way you'll have them, but won't need to file them today.

Tell him how you feel about this when he comes home. As you know, you can't control him. But perhaps he will control himself. I do believe people deserve second chances.

Have you looked into Retrouvaille? You can't even imagine how one weekend can change your marriage! Why suffer when it can be fixed with a little help from other people?