No, I didn't ask him out. It's been a tough weekend for me. I believe he's getting ready to move out, and hasn't said anything yet. Yes, I know that I don't "know" what he's thinking, but after all these years I can read his actions. My biggest concern is our D's (of course) and just how to respond when he does tell me. I had to chuckle to myself b/c I wonder if he's waiting for me to bring it up (would make it easier for him). We'll see how it goes. I would expect him to say something during the week so that he's off to work. Oh well. Sorry for going on.

I'm glad you went to the gym and that you're feeling more empowered. It's all of these things that get us through this.
Ultimately it about us being who we were meant to be.