You are absolutely right that she needs to be the one to do that BUT you will be a big part of it. I'm not saying that you aren't already a big part of it but she probably needs to HEAR that you will have her happiness in your mind as well as your own and the family's.
580 emails - urgh
Saffie
I will look one more time when I get home.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
