You are absolutely right that she needs to be the one to do that BUT you will be a big part of it. I'm not saying that you aren't already a big part of it but she probably needs to HEAR that you will have her happiness in your mind as well as your own and the family's.

580 emails - urgh

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength