Rys - I don't even want to know about any more $$$ H spent on the pathetic ow.. I just found another electronic device my H had hidden. He swears that HE bought it for himself and ow didn't spend her child support $$ on it. I asked why he didn't just tell me (we are on a tight budget but it wasn't THAT big of a deal). He apologized.. Geez.. I'm not the friggin' enemy, I'm his wife! I simply told him that he can always tell me anything. It's almost like he's lived this second life for so long that he just can't stop lying and keeping secrets.
Last night I requested no more R talk. I was too exhausted.
Today - he slides on his wedding ring, tells me ILY very very much, and gives me a big kiss. It is all very surreal for two people about to file for D.
