Hmmm...........OT, I guess I've left out some timeline details. I really could give a rat's (you know what) that she changed her name back to her maiden, I'm just curious why now? Why not earlier? She bitched alot about keeping the same name as her girls, then she has changed wind. I find it funny that when someone screams their position in life, they often change it. She had such the defense for keeping my last name that now she is changing it. I find it funny, that is all.

OT, X and whatever she does has nothing to do with me.......it has more to do with her view on life. I've only tried to understand how she sees things. I have my own life, my kids, friends, my family, my business and others to worry about. I simply come here to let the voices in my head go to paper (OK, go to posts online) and vent a bit. What I write about is simply thoughts in my head, not how I live my life.

All I wondered on my last post was.............if someone fought so hard to keep their kids last name for over 4 years, why change it? Remember OT, I wanted her to change her name after the D, I'm glad she did it! I asked her to change it 4 years ago and she fought to keep it, very angrily. I respected her wishes because I didn't know what it was like to be the parent that could or couldn't change their last name to make it differnt than their child's last name. My request for her to change her name was soooo long ago, I know that she didn't change her name because of me.

Even when I was M, I could only dream of someone making their breath about me!

OT, I'm just here writing about my issues with the X because everyone here has or is in my shoes. It is better tossing around ideas and conversations here than with anyone else. I do not know of anyone else that I can talk to about my sitch, at least everyone here has been there, done that.

Funny thing is, the last time X and our Ls had a meeting, X's L reffered to X as (Mrs.) to which I corrected him by saying "I spent a pretty penny to make sure that your client was no longer a Mrs. to me. Please reffer to X as Miss."

I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death