Ya know Ian, I have been ready to move on sooooo many times within the last 2 years I've lost count. BUT-- it wasn't until this past month that I think I really was there and was truely ready and OK.
I think it took me telling H that I knew we would be OK if we got back together not because I knew he had changed, but because I knew I had changed and that I had changed how I reacted to him.
Once I said that to him, I realized that I would be OK without getting back together for the exact same reasons. Not because I was sure I would be OK without him, but because I had changed and was OK with me.
Only you can know if you are ready to move on. But in my humble opinion, there is saying you are ready and then there is coming to the realization that you are moving on and you are ready for it to happen.
Oh- and when are you getting into town?? This time it's my turn to buy. I'm getting a bit of a complex with all these people coming to Vegas and not letting me pay for anything!!!!
